Showing posts with label experiences. Show all posts
Showing posts with label experiences. Show all posts

Sunday, November 17, 2019

Why I started flashing, enjoying public nudity, and CMNM







My love of being nude outdoors and hopefully in front of other men probably stemmed a lot from what happened (or didn't ) in childhood, in my pre-teenage years and in adolescence. Of course, it depends on what you mean when you stay started flashing.' But that's a whole other issue.

One of my first 'flashing' or exhibitionist experiences was in the 3rd grade - age 8. I had a school friend whose house was far from mine (we rode a school bus). Sometimes, in order for us to play, our parents would allow me to ride home with him, and then either mine or his mother would bring me home. He had a real wooden 'playhouse' in his backyard - complete with furniture, windows/curtains, and he also lots of toys and also clothes (his mother's mostly) for playing 'dress up.' We'd strip naked and put on the old clothes. I have an image of me running around his yard with a thin 
chiffon blouse with nothing else but a hard-on underneath. NO... I did not (and do not) get 

aroused by wearing female clothing - it was just the act of getting
naked to dress up (only partially clothed) that excited me. I vaguely remember us comparing stiff dicks but I don't think we really did anything with them - although I kind of have a faint memory of us doinng something with granulated sugar on our prepubescent woodies. My family moved every year during this period, so I didn't stay there long enough for things to develop further.

At about the age of 13 or so, - just about the time I discovered masturbation, I remember going out often after dark at 9-10 at night and then stripping off my clothes and sneaking around the neighborhood homes' backyards, garages, etc. One reason was the fact that I really did not have a place to jerk off. There were six people in the family and only one bathroom. While the basement was being turned into a third bedroom and family room, my brother and I had to sleep in the living room - just steps from my parents' room - so there was little privacy.


The basement floor of our house, whose back wall opened to the outside since the house was on a hill, so it was easy enough to go out without my parents knowing (and my brother was asleep). My mother was a nurse and often worked the 3-11 shift.



Once during one of these 'night walks', I was naked and my clothes were out of reach. I was sitting on a low rock wall behind my neighbor's house and was jacking on my cock in the moonlight. All of a sudden, a kid a year or so younger than me and whom I didn't know personally appeared out of the darkness. "What are you doing?" I was surprised and was so startled I lost my erection quickly. I guess because I knew he lived about 8 houses down on the next street - it got me scared that he tell someone or the word would get around. Actually - I realized later by the way he kept asking more questions about what I doing, he was probably curious about the jerking off.

He asked me if I lived next door, pointing to my house. But I denied it, saying I lived on another street. I got up and grabbed my shorts and shirts, put them on hastily and got out of there. Later when I got back to my bed, the fear lessened, and reasoning kicked in, and then I realized how much it had turned me on to be discovered like that - naked and jerking.
Later I wondered what he was doing out alone at night and further from his house than I ventured. Probably he would have joined me in getting naked and jerking if I'd handled it differently.


I guess that these events might account for my continuing habit of getting naked in public whenever I could. Later as a teenager, I used to take long rides on my bicycle and eventually find a place to get 

naked out in the country. Since it was broad daylight, I never really had the guts to risk getting caught - so I stayed pretty well sheltered from direct public view. But the excitement was always there because I could have been caught (or seen), and I never failed to cum quickly once I was completely naked.
One time a couple of summers ago, I got naked in a public park overlooking Tokyo Bay. I ended up being seen by a couple of curious male onlookers (casual strangers who were walking by and who seemed to 'know' that seeing sunbathers was common here). 


 Of course, I think I was the only sunbather who was actually nude. Well. one of the curious onlookers was a young Japanese guy who eventually got closer and closer and finally came up to me with his passions obviously enflamed by my daring. I was lying naked in the grass, and standing over me (clothed), he encouraged me to beat off to ejaculation right in front of him. It was a very hot experience and one that has kept me trying to 'repeat' it for a couple of years of dickflashing experiences since then.

I wrote about this in my latest JUB blog entry and also on my Guys Into CMNM (Clothed Male / Naked Male) blog.




Sunday, October 15, 2017

Hanging out nude with other dudes - non-sexual camaraderie


Big Island CMNM Festa,  Dec 22 - 24, 2017,  Meet up at Xmas at Beach 67 (Waialea Beach), 12:00 - 4:00 pm 
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/nude-beach-xmas-party-dec-22nd-24th-2017-tickets-38900641867 
lexington3
U.S.A. : New York : New York 
Original posting: lexington3
11 Jun 2009, 04:16
Hanging naked is fun. You don't have to be a nudist to enjoy. Anyone feel the same way? It's a pretty low stress way to meet up.




TKNAKED1
U.S.A. : California : Martinez 
Follow up: TKNAKED1
11 Jun 2009, 08:09
Love just kiking back naked. Used to hit a beach / campground near Santa Cruz many times till is closed a couple years ago. This pic, I believe, is from one of our last trips. Man that was a GREAT trip.
I'll be naked at home and if my buddy drops by he either sheds his clothes or it's no big deal for me to stay naked.





nyce2awl
U.S.A. : New York : New York 
Follow up: nyce2awl
11 Jun 2009, 08:09
I think hanging out naked is so damn great. So freeing and liberating (same thing?!). Wish I could do it all the time. My problem is that I'm turned on by being naked and almost always have a hard-on...is that REALLY a problem?


lexington3
U.S.A. : New York : New York 
Follow up: lexington3
11 Jun 2009, 09:25
nyce2awl,
Everybody thinks that and its natural and shouldn't be anything to worry about. As you get used to doing it (hanging naked non-solo) you'll become more comfortable and it will not be the problem or issue you think.

If you meet guys into it randomly on-line the experience is apt to be more sexual so.. I resisted going to naked things for the same reasons. Guess what it really wasn't an issue. (notice I didn't say a "big deal") LOL,  Enjoy!



NewdInFl
U.S.A. : Florida : Tampa 
Follow up: NewdInFl
11 Jun 2009, 09:53
"Male bonding is best done nude."
- Gay Naturist International

Nudists in general are a very friendly community. Being naked with others breaks down so many barriers.



briefs6335
U.S.A. : New York : Rochester 
Follow up: briefs6335
11 Jun 2009, 20:54
It has been a while since I've had a chance to hang out naked and I miss it. too bad we are so hung up on nudity in the US and there are not more nude beaches.


Bklynplay
U.S.A. : New York : Brooklyn 
Follow up: Bklynplay
12 Jun 2009, 08:41
never had the real opportunity...use to go to a gay campground that was clothing optional but was too shy to walk around naked

tomcanx
U.S.A. : New York : New York 
Follow up: tomcanx
12 Jun 2009, 08:54
I would love to try it out..but the truth of the matter is I am to conscious of my body...I think that is the problem a lot of people have with being generally nude in a non-sexual environment. But I would love to hang out and just be naked and not care.




nakedinma
U.S.A. : Massachusetts : Malden 
Follow up: nakedinma
12 Jun 2009, 09:58
I host a naked movie nite in the winter, and go out to naked swimming holes in the summer.


Love to just hang out naked.



Dic
U.S.A. : Virginia : Woodbridge 
Follow up: Dic
12 Jun 2009, 11:11
I used to hang out with about 10 guys and just get some sun. Some would have on swim trunks and the rest of us would be buck ass naked.



RonnieG
U.S.A. : Missouri : Kansas City 
Follow up: RonnieG
13 Jun 2009, 14:06
Nude pool parties are cool and nude beaches. It is not always sexual, even if I get a little aroused from time to time.


flashguy
U.K. : Gloucestershire : Cheltenham 
Follow up: flashguy
14 Jun 2009, 05:51
Yep i just love being naked. As soon as i get home from work i'm naked for the rest of the evening.. On my days off work i'm naked all day. unless i have to go shopping. I do enjoy being naked .


hottrodd7
U.S.A. : New York : Rochester 
Follow up: hottrodd7
15 Jun 2009, 18:28
Hanging out naked is the best! Even better with buds! The whole hard-on thing soon goes away as it just starts to be so natural to be naked. Pretty soon---you aren't even thinking about it. Be careful though---it's addictive! The more you're naked the more you WANT to be naked!!! LOL




dogguy
Follow up: dogguy§
10 Aug 2009, 06:19
Love hanging out at the beach nude, nude holiday resorts are great. Like camping/hiking nude. Just walking in the door and dropping the clothes is a natural thing unless I "have" to put clothes on for company/guests....:)

eseone
Australia : Western Australia : Perth 
Follow up: eseone§
19 Aug 2009, 14:36
Love being Naked and around other Guys it's Great. There seems to be a barrier between people that is dropped. Luv it I just don't get to do it enough.


Nakedmatt
U.S.A. : Washington DC : Washington DC 
Follow up: Nakedmatt
20 Aug 2009, 04:48
Love being naked as much as possible! Especially outside, and if other guys are involved even better!



hottrodd7
U.S.A. : New York : Rochester 
Follow up: hottrodd7
20 Aug 2009, 17:18
I agree with Nakedmatt--being naked outdoors is the best--and with other naked guys is awesome. Doesn't have to be a sexual thing (can be if you want), but just a bonding thing. I'm going to Hillside campgrounds next weekend--I plan on being naked all weekend long! Can't wait!

oakley
U.K. : Essex : Thurrock 
Follow up: oakley
20 Aug 2009, 23:23
love hanging naked with guy or guys.
NOTE from editor: This last respondant, Oakley, is one of the guys who told me about the Naked Disco event that happens at a London gay club the 3rd Friday of every month.